Tell me everything I need to know as an INTJ please
ENFP, Empath, Relationships, Anime Etc Answer:
Hello fellow INTJ anon. I could go on forever with this but for now I will start with 8 things.
1. People will dislike you. We INTJ have this aura that makes people dislike us, we could try our best and be the nicest human being on this planet but many people will dislike you. The sooner you learn to accept that the easier your life will be.
2. We have this presence of arrogance. Our presence makes some people uncomfortable. We could be smiling and walk up to a group of people and some of them say bye and go away. That is because we make them uncomfortable.
3. You will say hurtful things without realizing it. We sometimes say something offensive without realizing it. We have monitor very closely what we are saying or there are bound to be consequence. Sometimes though it’s other people who are the problem they are illogical and emotional and you have to accept that and stay away from them. (In my case I look for those people just to piss them off).
4. Teachers, parents or adults and people in general will degrade you just for having a opinion. Don’t let them get to you. We are opinionated and that leads us to research things so we can form a opinion. Some people are threaten my that so they put us down for it. I let them get to me and that was the worst thing in my life so far.
5. We are very sarcastic. Try not be too sarcastic in a room of Sensing types because we come across as bitchy. I don’t know why but so far all the INTJ I know have had a problem with this.
6. Don’t hold grudges. I stopped talking to my friend for 6 months because I wanted to teach her a lesson on being immature. Don’t do that it’s bad for your mental and physical health.
7. Be careful when critiquing people. We are analytical and literally put every flaw out there. Some people don’t like it when we do that. The get emotional and sometimes resort to immature acts to get some sort of revenge.
8. Slow down. I know we think fast but when working with other people we have to slow down and explain even if we don’t have words ourselves, you still have to try.
Ok anon that’s all I can think of now. If you want more just message me and let me know, I’ll make them with gifs if you want.